Why I Don’t Date Fat People
Okay, this has been a long debated and argued topic, but I’d like to express my opinion on it. The truth is…. I would never date a fat person. Before you start making judgments about me let me explain:
- People often try the classic defense to such questions “what if it is because of a medical condition….” but let me tell you that these people are a very small percentile of the total overweight population. The MAIN and most COMMON reasons for obesity are overeating and lack of physical activity.
- I don’t want to marry someone who’s going to have an heart attack any time. It may sound harsh but that is the truth, its not just about looks, I would care less about that, what worries me is all the health problems and diseases associated with living a bad lifestyle. Overeating is more of an addiction and most people end up getting sick (physically and mentally) due to their weight issues.
- Confidence is attractive. Its actually the first thing I notice in a person but sadly its difficult to be confident about yourself if you’re overweight or worse obese. I know there are exceptions and you’d tell me about that aunt of yours who loves herself and is extremely confident in spite of being 200 lbs. But common, most young men and women who are fat feel extremely self conscious about themselves and I are always feeling awkward whether you take them to a night club or a mall.
- Then how can I forget my own priorities. I give high importance to health and have been working out in the gym since I was 12. I have been a basketball player and a swimmer. So fitness is very important to me. Not because of the looks, again, its because of the health part. We have a short life and its very important to be fresh and healthy to live it to the fullest.
- And rather than looking in the mirror and wondering how the hell you ended up looking so fat why don’t you start working out. How difficult is it to eat a fruit and prevent yourself from binging on that burger? I know you got emotional issues but getting fat is only going to make them worse for you.
- I respect fat people and I definitely don’t mind being friends with them, so I’m not a body fascist, but if I am looking for a life partner I definitely got to have some standards.
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Haha..totally agree on most points.
Some people moan and say ohh you are so lucky, you are so thin. Feel like telling them – dude, i’m careful, not lucky.
Good post.
http://costech.wordpress.com/
costech - May 26, 2008 at 10:27 am
I hate fattys.
They eat all the pie.
Ri - September 22, 2008 at 6:26 am
ur a idiot ps no fat person would want ya to good 4 u
baby got 2 much loven - September 30, 2008 at 11:18 pm
lol go to the gym and stop eating supersize fast food you fat fuck!
Kyle - September 11, 2009 at 9:37 pm
do u now there bums better looking than ur face
lol - September 30, 2008 at 11:20 pm
Get off your high horse? No way, it’s common zense.
Never date fat men - November 26, 2008 at 3:39 pm
STFU. This guy is right. He is in no way on a high horse. He was very respectful and truthfull and honest in his blog. He respects fat people but would not date them because he doesnt want a food addicted junkie as a life partner. You cant say anything anymore without some idiot like you taking it personnaly.
Being overweight is dangerous and completely u unhealthy. Would you date someone who doesnt shower? No. Well this guy would not date someone who dosent take care of themselves. If a person doesnt even take care of themselves, they are not worth a date.
Losers like you need to get up and do some exercise and change there lifestyles. Stop crying like a baby and making excuses. Winners take action while the losers cry and make excuses.
This guy is right on on all of his points! Dont like it? Get a life!
Kyle - September 11, 2009 at 9:36 pm
Personally I would not date a fat person because I think fat bodies look ugly and unattractive. I don’t think fat people are lazy, I don’t think a fat person is less healthy than a skinny smoker, I don’t think fat people are less emotionally healthy, and I am sure their personality are no worse than those of skinny people, I just think they look ugly. I find fat bodies slightly nauseating even while they are still covered in clothes. The level of nausea increases if on the beach or at the pool there is an occasional fat person – I find their appearance disgusting but I usually look away and keep my gaze averted. I can’t imagine a fat man naked in front of me – I would projectile vomit.
Kat - December 24, 2008 at 12:54 am
dude..im 12 and weigh 216 puonds and i have a girl freind because im fat. its fun bieng fat, the only bad thing is in gym class where ur belly and moobs flop evrywere.
fat kidd - February 15, 2009 at 1:11 am
what do you consider fat?
Anonymous - March 12, 2009 at 10:58 pm
do you consider fat anything that isnt stick skinny?
Anonymous - March 12, 2009 at 11:34 pm
There is a difference between fat and sticky skin, sticky skin is being in shape and tone, also, I would not date a fat person because I am attracted by those people who take care of themselves and take care of other people… if i see someone who cant obviously take care of themselves then why would i think in the long run they could take care of me or my children, also there are more deaths in america caused by obesity than any other deaths combined which is why asian countries are so healthy and living longer than americans because we eat crap unhealthy foods and they spend time cooking their food and eating healthy and staying thin. Honestly it is not hard to get up and do 50 pushups or 100 sit-ups, it takes me 2 minutes max, if you are too lazy to take out 2 minutes to stay in a little shape i have no sympathy for you at all. By the way my entire family is completely obese and I am the only one who cares enough about myself to no eat grab and go foods and do not even that much of a work out and my skin is toned because of the 2 minutes i spend each morning or night a day.
Anonymous - March 28, 2009 at 12:26 am